Sunday, July 31, 2011


Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone in a family or even in a relationship.. Regardless of size, gender, or strength, yet the problem is often excused, or denied.

Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you. An abuser doesn’t “play fair.” Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under his thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you..

I know psychological abuse is often overlooked, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars. They say noticing and acknowledging the warning signs and symptoms of domestic violence and abuse is the first step to ending it.. But seriously?? I don't think so.

I just think that no one should live in fear of the person they love.. People say if you recognize yourself or someone you know in the following warning signs and descriptions of abuse, don’t hesitate to reach out. There is help available.
But I think not everyone can be saved.

I truly feel for those who went through this. Well I have. I sometimes don't understand up to a certain point where they start a joke that is not meant to be funny or make fun of you.. and when they get an unpleasant reaction, they get upset and there you go.. *Shazaymmn*!! Everything just went bombastic. And things repeats by itself and they will never change.

I'm starting to think that it is one of their bad habits that's hard for them to kick it out. and it isn't healthy at all. When you're abused physically and psychologically.. This can contribute to a disruption of the body system. These are one of the major factor on people who get stroke, mental illness; delusional and all. hmm. Abd like I said, this doesn't only take courage or guts, it takes you patience to handle this problem wisely.

And as for me. I've been through all these things and it is sure not easy. In short, never look for a guy who beats you up. Or just “stay away from the people who are capable of hurting you physically”.. Love yourself first. That's the mistake I did for so long.